Terlalu sempurna untuk anak-anak adalah satu kesilapan dikalangan ibu-bapa

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Saya bukan orang Malaysia. Saya menulis ini adalah kerana ibu bapa di Malaysia kurang prihatin. Sebarkanlah kepada rakan2 dan ahli keluarga.

“Memarahi anak2 adalah kerana mereka tidak sempurna. Anda terlalu inginkan kesempurnaan. Terlalu sempurna untuk anak2 adalah satu kesilapan di kalangan ibu bapa”

When my girl and I were queuing to pay for our groceries, a mother jerit to her children for playing at the back. Saya terkejut, the children terkejut, semua orang terkejut. The children cepat2 came back to the mother. My girl, which i believe without any intention to hurt the mother’s feeling, spontaneously said “garangnya mak dia” in BM(She can speak BM bcs her father is a malay). I guess she heard it because her air muka berubah. Later then the boy try to help the mother by putting all the stuffs inside the trolley. Malangnya, beg plastic berisi telur jatuh. Again, the mother nampak marah, so she pulas perut anak dia. Muka anak dia tahan sakit
DISAAT ITU, SAYA BERHARAP THE MOTHER REALLY HEARD WHAT MY GIRL JUST SAID.

TO ALL PARENTS OUT THERE;
Raising voice or screaming, di rumah atau di public wont help. In fact, this will lead to mental health soon as they grow up. They will became very impatient, get mad easily, love to lie to people, penakut dan pling sedih, suka bergaduh. This will be hard for them to deal with people in the university, school and workplace.
Saya dari Germany, seorang counselor di Malaysia. Jadi saya tahu more or less about this. Maaf sekiranya bahasa saya kurang difahami.


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